Hey, just a heads up:
This isn’t flattering. This isn’t clever. I don’t get excited to see some faceless icon saying they want to have sex with me.
And it doesn’t upset me. I’m not sitting here weeping. But I get the feeling that people say things like this because they think it’s the grown-up equivalent of leaving a valentine in someone’s cubby when they’re not looking.
It’s not.
Honestly, it’s kind of just disappointing. Disappointing because I’m willing to bet that most of the people who leave things like this aren’t bad people. They’re not even the same people who would cat-call you on the street. But it’s a bummer to think that anonymity might be the only thing keeping them from that.
I don’t know, do what you like. Just know that if you think you’re being cute or coy or flirty when you do things this, you’re not. And maybe you’re better than that.
The things people do due to Anonymity…its honestly astounding.
